Fermin Gomez

Fermin Sonny Gomez passed away at his home in Hagerman, New Mexico on Monday, February 4, 2008. He was born June 20, 1929 in Loving, NM to Fermin Gomez, Sr. and Estella Padilla Gomez who preceded him in death. Dad was a kind, loving and thoughtful person. He respected everyone and would help anyone in need. He had a great sense of humor and enjoyed entertaining people. This was demonstrated by his willingness to dress in costume for various holidays. So much so that he would dress in costume for days afterward to bring laughter to as many customers as possible. His motto was, dont worry, be happy. He so loved and believed in the Lord that he made an annual pilgrimage to Santuario de Chimayo in northern New Mexico. His father started this tradition. Upon his passing, Dad took it upon himself to continue the tradition. His mother and father were most influential on his life. His death will affect all who knew him. In younger years he enjoyed farming in the Buffalo Valley east of Hagerman and was known to be one of the few who could farm successfully in that hard caliche soil. In later years he was a business owner who truly enjoyed his profession as a nightclub owner. His career began in 1947 at El Gomez Club that was built by his mother and father. He treated all his customers as family and was always truly glad to see them. His family were his friends and his customers were his family. His hobby was his business and his business was people in which he loved spending time with. He was raised in the Pecos Valley and had an incredible knowledge of the history of the land and people. He enjoyed sharing his knowledge with everyone. In 1987, Bartender Magazine, a national publication inducted him into the Bartender Hall of Fame which became one of his proudest accomplishments. He so loved his 1960 red Ford Thunderbird, which he purchased brand new off the showroom floor that he could never bring himself to sell it. He often said he was proudest of his two daughters who were not afraid of hard work. He was a member of the United States Army and was a longtime member of the Artesia Moose Lodge. He was an inspiration to his children and grandchildren, nieces and nephews, aunts and uncles, friends and customers. As quoted by his grandchildren, He was the best grandpa in the world. He was the Favorite uncle in the world and The greatest by everyone else who knew him. He made a good living but more importantly, he made a great life. Surviving him are his wife Elia Gomez, daughters Luana Harrell and husband Gary Harrell of Roswell, NM and Sonia Gomez of Hagerman, NM., one granddaughter, Melana Boyd and husband Jason Boyd of Midland, TX., grandsons Justin Gray and Staci Ennis of Roswell, NM, Nathaniel Gray and Megan Anderson of Roswell, NM and USMC Sgt.Valerian Gomez and Audrey Olivas of Hagerman, NM., great grandchildren Natalie and Eileen Gomez of Hagerman, NM, Aidan Boyd of Midland, TX and Sydney Gray of Roswell, NM., one sister, Olivia Reid of Dexter, NM, brothers Gilbert Gomez and wife Elsie of Hagerman, NM, Bobby Gomez and wife Arcie of Sun City, CA, Clancy Gomez and wife Karyn of Menefee, CA, Edward Gomez and wife Minnie of Artesia, NM, David Gomez and wife Phyllis of Carlsbad, NM, Daniel Gomez and wife Sharon of Roswell, NM, Joe Gomez and wife Beatrice of Chihuahua, Mexico, Billy Gomez and wife Jeannie of La Mesa, NM and a sister in law, Mony Gomez of Albuquerque, NM. One uncle, Bennie Padilla and wife Lorraine of Roswell, NM and three aunts, Betty Cordova of Santa Rosa, NM, Victoria Dutchover of Midway, NM and Maggie Lee Langenegger of Hagerman, NM, and his beloved madrina, Flavia Cota of Rio Ranch, NM also survive him along with thirty nieces and nephews and hundreds of friends and several generations of customers. Pallbearers will be his grandsons, Justin and Nathan Gray and Valerian Gomez, nephews Mark and Mario Reid and Joe Gomez, Jr.. A rosary will be recited on Thursday at 6:30 pm at Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church located at 1111 N. Roselawn, Artesia, NM with funeral services to be held Friday morning at 10:00 am at Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church in Artesia with burial to follow at Twin Oaks Memorial Park, 59 Lake Arthur Hwy., Artesia, NM. Memorial contributions may be made to the charity of your choice.